New Year, New Traditions: Honouring and Remembering Loved Ones in 2025

As the new year begins, many people feel a mix of emotions—hope for what’s ahead, along with the weight of loss if they’ve said goodbye to a loved one. Moving into a new year can be especially challenging when someone important is no longer with us. But for those who are grieving, it can also be a time to reflect, remember, and even start new traditions that honour the memory of the person who has passed.

At Arthur W Bryant Funeral Services, we understand how important it is to find ways to carry your loved one’s legacy forward. Here are a few ideas to help you create meaningful traditions and find peace as you enter 2025.

Create a Memory Jar

A memory jar is a simple yet powerful way to honour your loved one throughout the year. Each family member or friend can write down memories, quotes, or stories about the person who has passed and place them in a decorative jar. These memories can be shared on special occasions, or you may want to read them together at the end of the year.

This tradition not only keeps your loved one’s memory alive but also gives friends and family a place to share reflections and moments that celebrate the joy they brought into everyone’s life.

Establish an Annual Gathering or Activity

Consider dedicating a specific day each year to gathering with family or friends to honour your loved one. Whether it’s their birthday, a favourite holiday, or a meaningful date, a yearly gathering creates a sense of connection and remembrance.

Some ideas for an annual event include:

  • Hosting a family meal where you prepare their favourite foods.
  • Going on a walk in one of their cherished spots.
  • Engaging in an activity they loved

These gatherings provide a special time to remember, connect, and celebrate shared memories, strengthening the bonds between those who were touched by their life.

Plant a Memorial Garden or Tree

A lasting and beautiful tribute to a loved one is to plant something in their memory. Whether it’s a small memorial garden, a tree, or even flowers in a favourite colour, this tradition offers a sense of renewal and connection. You can choose plants or flowers that hold significance or select a tree that will grow over the years, symbolizing the enduring impact of their life.

Consider inviting family members to help with the planting and maintenance, turning it into a yearly tradition. Watching the plants bloom and grow can bring a sense of comfort and continuity, even as the seasons change.

Support a Cause They Believed In

If your loved one had a cause or charity they cared deeply about, consider donating or volunteering in their honour each year. Whether they were passionate about animal welfare, environmental conservation, or supporting local charities, this can be a meaningful way to carry forward their legacy.

This not only honours their values but also provides a positive way to contribute to something meaningful in their memory.

Write a Letter or Diary Entry

The start of a new year is a good time to reflect on the memories you hold close. Writing a letter or journal entry can be a comforting way to express your thoughts and feelings. Whether you write to them directly or pen your reflections about what they meant to you, this practice offers a chance to connect with their memory on a personal level.

Over time, these letters can also serve as a record of how you’ve honoured them, marking milestones and significant moments that keep their spirit close as you move forward.

Finding Support and Comfort

Grieving through the new year doesn’t have to be faced alone. Reaching out to friends, family, or a support group can make all the difference. At Arthur W Bryant Funeral Services, we offer guidance and can connect you with resources such as bereavement groups and counselling services, helping you find the comfort you need as you honour your loved one’s memory.

Embracing a New Year with Love and Remembrance

Remembering a loved one in the new year can be as simple or elaborate as you’d like. What matters most is finding ways that feel meaningful and right for you. Whether it’s a memory jar, an annual event, or volunteering for a cause, each tradition you create keeps their memory alive and helps you navigate the journey of grief with a sense of purpose and connection.

From all of us at Arthur W Bryant Funeral Services, we wish you peace, comfort, and cherished memories as you welcome 2025. If you would like to learn more about how we can support you in your journey, please don’t hesitate to reach out to us.

The Benefits of Pre-Planning Your Funeral: Peace of Mind for You and Your Loved Ones

Planning for the future is something many of us do throughout our lives—whether it’s saving for a home, planning a holiday, or securing our financial future. But one of the most meaningful and considerate things you can do for your family is to pre-plan your funeral. At Arthur W Bryant Funeral Services, we believe that pre-planning is an invaluable gift you can offer your loved ones, providing them with clarity, support, and peace of mind when they need it most. Here’s why pre-planning your funeral can be one of the most important decisions you make.

Eases the Emotional Burden on Loved Ones
Losing a loved one is an emotionally overwhelming experience, and making important decisions during such a difficult time can add to the stress. Pre-planning your funeral takes the burden off your family by ensuring all arrangements are made ahead of time. This allows them to focus on grieving and supporting each other, rather than worrying about the logistics of organizing a funeral service.
By pre-planning, your loved ones will have the comfort of knowing that your final wishes are being respected. It eliminates the guesswork and prevents any disagreements or uncertainty about what you might have wanted, giving your family one less thing to worry about.

Ensures Your Personal Wishes Are Honoured
One of the greatest benefits of pre-planning is that it allows you to make sure your funeral reflects your personal values, preferences, and beliefs. Whether you have specific wishes about the type of service you want, the music to be played, or the type of burial or cremation, pre-planning ensures that these details are carried out exactly as you envision.

Considerations for pre-planning your funeral might include:

  • Choosing between a traditional burial or cremation.
  • Deciding on a venue for the service, whether it be a church, chapel, or another meaningful location.
  • Selecting music, readings, or poems that hold special significance.
  • Determining how you would like your life to be celebrated, whether it’s a more formal service or a casual celebration of life.

By taking the time to document these preferences, you can ensure that your funeral truly reflects who you are and what’s important to you.

Alleviates Financial Stress
Funeral costs can be a source of significant stress for families, especially when unexpected. Pre-planning your funeral allows you to manage and often lock in today’s prices, saving your family from rising costs in the future. We also offer pre-payment options, giving you the flexibility to cover the expenses over time. This means your loved ones won’t have to worry about the financial burden when the time comes.

By handling these financial aspects in advance, you can leave your family in a better position to copewith the emotional side of loss, without the added worry of managing expenses.

Provides Peace of Mind for Everyone
One of the greatest gifts of pre-planning your funeral is the peace of mind it provides—not only for your loved ones but for yourself as well. Knowing that your wishes are set in place and that your family won’t be left to make difficult decisions offers a sense of comfort and security. Pre-planning gives you control over how you’ll be remembered and ensures that the experience for your loved ones is as smooth as possible.

By documenting everything from service details to payment options, you can rest easy knowing that your affairs are in order, leaving your loved ones free to focus on honouring your memory in the way you envisioned.

Flexibility and Customisation
Pre-planning does not mean you are locked into rigid decisions. In fact, one of the benefits is that plans can often be adjusted as your preferences change over time. If you decide later that you want a different type of service or would like to include something new, most funeral homes offer flexibility in modifying your arrangements.

This ability to customise and adjust plans gives you the freedom to create a service that evolves with your personal tastes and circumstances. You can update the details as needed to ensure that your final farewell is exactly what you want it to be.

Relieves Family from Having to Make Difficult Decisions
When a loss occurs, families are often left with the task of making quick decisions while they are grieving. From choosing the type of service to selecting burial or cremation options, the process can feel overwhelming. Pre-planning your funeral removes the need for these immediate decisions, offering your family a sense of relief during a time of loss.

With a pre-planned funeral, all major decisions have already been made, allowing your loved ones to focus on celebrating your life and processing their emotions. It also reduces the risk of disagreements among family members about what should be done, helping to prevent potential conflicts.

How Funeral Directors Help with Pre-Planning

At Arthur W Bryant Funeral Services, we are here to guide you through the pre-planning process with care and compassion. Our experienced team works closely with you to create a funeral plan that reflects your unique preferences and needs. Here’s how we assist with pre-planning:

  • Personal Consultation: We sit down with you to discuss your options and ensure all aspects of your plan are covered, from service details to payment plans.
  • Flexible Payment Options: We offer flexible payment plans to make pre-planning financially manageable and convenient.
  • Record-Keeping: Your wishes will be carefully documented and kept on file, ensuring that when the time comes, everything is handled according to your instructions.
  • Updating Plans: We understand that circumstances can change, so we offer the flexibility to update your plans as needed.

Start Pre-Planning Today

Pre-planning your funeral is a thoughtful way to provide peace of mind for yourself and your family. It allows you to take control of your final arrangements, ensuring your wishes are honoured while relieving your loved ones from emotional and financial stress. At Arthur W Bryant Funeral Services, we are here to help you every step of the way, offering compassionate guidance and support through the process.

If you are interested in learning more about pre-planning or would like to find out more, please contact us today. Our team is here to help you create a personalised and meaningful plan that gives you and your family lasting peace of mind.

Eco-Friendly Farewells: Exploring Green Funerals

Green Funerals – sometimes referred to as ‘natural burials’ or ‘eco funerals’ – are an increasingly popular option.

Sustainability and the effects of our product and service choices on the world around us have never been more in the spotlight. It’s not surprising that this has also become an important factor to consider when planning a funeral.

There are many options now widely available to make a funeral more ecologically friendly, from swapping out elements such as commercially grown flowers to something more natural, to arranging a completely green funeral.

What is a green funeral?

A green funeral is a term that usually refers to a woodland burial, an eco-funeral, or a natural burial.

Green funerals are gaining popularity as an alternative to traditional burials and funeral services. They use less harmful or wasteful materials during the body preparation and burial process. The purpose of a more natural style of funeral is to reduce the funeral’s environmental impact.

The ceremony is held in a natural setting, usually outdoors in a meadow or woodland area, that provides peace and tranquillity for family and friends. A green funeral will be held in a location that promotes native flowers and wildlife while preserving the natural beauty of the environment.

Why choose a green funeral?

People are becoming more aware of, and concerned about, their environmental impact. Some people choose to have a green funeral because they care about their carbon footprint in life and want to continue doing so after death.

A natural burial is the process of returning a body to the earth in the most natural way possible. As mentioned before, this is typically done in green spaces such as wildflower meadows or protected woodland, which can be more pleasant places to remember a loved one.

Green funerals are also much more adaptable in terms of service or memorial. You may want to consider a green funeral if you want a simple, personalised service that focuses on your loved one’s stories in a beautiful setting.

Is a green funeral right for me or my loved one?

A green funeral may be right for you or your loved ones if you prefer an environmentally conscious funeral, a nature-focused service, or a non-religious service – or all three.

Many people prefer green funerals because they like the idea of a body returning to the earth and of planting a tree or flowers in memory of a loved one.

It’s also worth noting that a green funeral takes place in burial grounds that are designed to look as much like natural woodland as possible,. While your loved one’s exact burial location may be difficult to locate, many people consider the entire green space to be a memorial.

What is an Eco-friendly coffin?

Eco-friendly coffins are made from sustainable materials and will not harm the environment as they decompose. There are many different types of coffins to choose from. The style and materials used will have an impact on cost, so it’s always worth exploring your options.

Cardboard Coffins

Cardboard coffins are a popular choice as they are completely biodegradable and made from recycled material. If the cardboard is manufactured in the UK the cardboard will have an even lower carbon footprint than if shipped from overseas.

Wool Coffins

Wool is the ultimate sustainable material. When the wool comes from UK farms the shipping footprint is minimal. Wool is completely biodegradable, renewable, and loved by natural burial grounds.

Willow Coffins

Willow grows very quickly at around 10 feet over the course or a summer. Once harvested the remaining stump can produce additional rods. It’s highly sustainable and grows very well in the UK. Willow coffins can be woven into many types of designs and colours.

Forest Stewardship Council (FSC) Certified Wood

There are wooden coffin options available that are eco-friendly. Look for FSC certified wood which means it has come from a sustainable source and has been carefully managed. Designs can be printed onto an environmentally friendly paper wrap, and you can even create your own bespoke design to be applied.

Shroud

For some, their preference is not to have a coffin at all. Many people don’t realise that you can opt for a simple cotton shroud, woollen blanket, or any other natural material instead of a coffin.  

What eco-friendly options are there for funerals?

Even if you aren’t having a completely green funeral, there are some easy swaps that can make a funeral more environmentally friendly:

  • Flowers – where possible choose seasonal and hand tied. Avoid any foam and polystyrene – ask your florist to use biodegradable materials such as moss and bamboo picks to replace pins. You can also ask guests to donate to a charity instead of flowers.
  • Online invites – email guests or post the details on social media. Rather than printing an order of service, opt for an online version or e-book.
  • Transport – use local public transport if possible or suggest car sharing. Think about whether some of the funeral procession could be done on foot. Look for a funeral director who is replacing traditional vehicles with hybrid or electric vehicles.
  • Coffin – choose a more natural and environmentally friendly material for your coffin. Look for funeral director’s that use reputable suppliers such as Somerset Willow Coffins, or Colourful Coffins.
  • Opt for a natural burial ground such as Atlantic Rest Natural Burial.

Greener Ways to Remember

There are also considerations you can make for any ceremonial or memorial tributes you plan for your loved one. Stay away from releasing balloons and sky lanterns as these leave plastics and material that is detrimental for plants and wildlife around for years. Instead choose flower petals or seeded paper – something that has a positive impact on the planet when it breaks down.

What is the cost of a green funeral?

Green funeral costs can range from hundreds to thousands, but they can be less expensive than a cremation or traditional burial depending on what you choose to have.

This is because coffins are made of less expensive materials, such as recycled paper or cardboard, and headstones or memorials are rarely used (these tend to be the most expensive components of a funeral send-off).

In addition to purchasing the woodland burial plot, you may be required to pay a gravedigging fee, which varies between burial grounds. You should also consider the cost of the tree or flowers you want to plant if allowed by the burial ground.

Whatever your wishes are for your funeral, you can record them by creating a funeral plan. We can also provide an estimate for you. You can contact the team on 01288 352 282 or online.

Understanding the costs of a funeral

Here at Arthur W. Bryant Funeral Services we will always keep you informed about the costs of the funeral right from the very beginning. We will explain to you what the options are and how much they cost so that you are fully informed about the choices you make.

When you have made your choices we will provide you with a written estimate of the funeral costs. If, at this stage, you would like to change anything we will help you do this.

What makes up the costs of a funeral?

The costs of a funeral are made up of the following:

  • Professional services which is a fixed fee that covers the full arrangement of a funeral. This includes personal supervision of all the arrangements preceding, during and following the service, liaison with third parties, such as clergy, crematorium, cemetery and florists, use of the funeral home facilities, such as our chapels and private rooms, preparing and attending to all essential documentation and provision of all necessary funeral staff to provide a dignified and personal service.
  • Supplementary charges, which include bringing your loved one into our care, presentation of the person and provision of a hearse.
  • The cost of the coffin or casket.
  • Additional charges such as limousines, additional mileage and cremation casket.
  • Payments made on your behalf, known as disbursements, which include fees for the doctor, minister and cremation.

You will receive your fully itemised invoice 10 – 14 days after the funeral. If you wish the invoice to be referred to a solicitor, please advise us as soon as possible when arranging the funeral. However, please note that you remain responsible for the account being paid in accordance with our terms and conditions.

Meeting the costs of a funeral

The costs of a funeral are defined as a debt against the estate so you may be able to arrange for the funeral to be paid by the estate rather than paying this amount yourself.

If you think you may have trouble meeting funeral costs, please discuss this with us at the time of arrangement.

If you are in receipt of certain benefits, you may be eligible to apply for a Funeral Payment to help with funeral costs. Payment can only be authorised by the Department of Work and Pensions. Please click here for further information on Funeral Payments.

Please remember that you are personally liable for any amount in excess of the agreed payment by the Department of Social Security (DWP), or indeed the whole invoice amount if a payment is not received.
If you do not qualify for a payment we may still be able to advise you on other forms of assistance.

Planning ahead

Rather than pay for the funeral from their estate, or leave the cost to a family member, some people prefer to pay in advance by setting up a Funeral Plan. Pop into any of our branches for more information and advice on setting up a funeral plan or click here for further details.

Embracing Technology in Funeral Services

In an age where technology permeates every aspect of our lives, it’s no surprise that its influence extends to the realm of funeral services.

Here at Arthur Bryant’s Funeral Services, we recognise the importance of embracing technological advancements to provide comfort, connectivity, and support to grieving families, especially in times when physical attendance may be challenging.

In this blog post, we’ll explore the role of technology in modern funeral services and how it’s transforming the way we honour and remember our loved ones.

Live-Streaming: Bringing Loved Ones Together Across Distances

One of the most significant advancements in funeral technology is live-streaming services. Through the use of cameras and streaming platforms, we can now broadcast funeral ceremonies in real-time, allowing family members and friends who are unable to attend in person to participate remotely. Whether they’re across the country or halfway around the world, live-streaming enables loved ones to be present and support each other during moments of grief.

Video Tributes: Some stories need more than words

Whether your loved one possessed a creative flair, loved to travel, or enjoyed time in the garden, the themed video tribute brings an added layer of personalisation. This tribute can be played at your chosen time during the funeral service for a moment that truly reflects the life lived. Included in video tributes are a choice of photos which are perfectly timed to a song of your choice that reflects the life they lived.

Virtual Memorials: Creating Digital Tributes That Last

Virtual memorials offer a digital space for families to gather, share memories, and pay tribute to their loved ones. These online platforms provide a centralised hub for photos, videos, stories, and messages of condolence, allowing family members and friends to honour the deceased’s life and legacy in a meaningful way. Virtual memorials can be accessed anytime, anywhere, providing a lasting tribute that transcends physical boundaries.

Digital Guestbooks: Preserving Memories and Messages

Digital guestbooks have replaced traditional paper guestbooks, allowing attendees to leave messages of condolence and support online. These digital platforms not only streamline the process of collecting and organizing guestbook entries but also provide families with a treasure trove of memories and messages to cherish in the years to come. From heartfelt notes to shared anecdotes, digital guestbooks preserve the outpouring of love and support from friends and family members.

While technology has revolutionized the way we approach funeral services, it’s important to remember that its ultimate purpose is to enhance, rather than replace, traditional rituals and customs.

We strive to strike a balance between honouring tradition and embracing innovation, ensuring that every service reflects the unique needs and preferences of the families we care for. By harnessing the power of technology, we create meaningful and memorable experiences that honour the lives of our loved ones with dignity, respect, and compassion.

Coping with grief on Valentine’s Day

For many, Valentine’s Day is a time to express their love for one another and spend time together. But for those who’ve lost their significant other, Valentine’s Day can be an especially painful time.

The Valentine’s theme is found everywhere from shops to social media and television. It’s hard to avoid, but there are ways to get through it. Here’s our guide to coping with loss on Valentine’s Day.

Give yourself permission to feel sad

Grieving is highly personal. How you do it depends on you – especially on days like Valentine’s Day, which can remind you of your loved one. The important thing is that you allow yourself to do what feels right – whether that’s embracing your feelings of sadness or enjoying the day in your loved one’s honour. Whichever way you decide to mark the occasion, or if you decide to ignore it altogether, how you spend the day should depend on what is right for you.

Talk to someone

Valentine’s Day can be an isolating and lonely time if you’ve recently lost someone. But remember, you are not alone. 14 February is a date that sparks feelings of anxiousness in many people who’ve lost loved ones. Speaking to friends and family about how you’re feeling may help, while some find it easier to talk to someone impartial like a counsellor or a support group.

Do whatever is right for you

Over the years, it’s common for couples to develop Valentine’s Day traditions. Continuing these can seem a fitting way to mark the occasion, but keeping these traditions could make you feel their absence even more, which could intensify your feelings of sadness.

Why not consider starting an alternative tradition? Something you can do in memory of your loved one every year. It could be anything from reminiscing over photos to cooking their favourite meal and enjoying it with family and friends.

If you prefer something a little more creative, you could write a poem or create a piece of art that expresses your feelings. This is a great way to divert your attention and occupy your mind.

You could even just do nothing. Book the day off work and have a peaceful day at home. With no pressure to do anything or see anyone, this can be your time to rest and relax.

Put your wellbeing first

If you choose to go out and do something – whether it’s dinner with friends or another activity – you shouldn’t feel pressured to be upbeat and sociable. Grieving is always difficult, and even little things can have an emotional impact.

You may wish to take the day off to do something for yourself like going for a walk somewhere, going to the cinema with a friend or whatever else you choose.

Avoid social media

You may wish to avoid your social media channels completely on Valentine’s Day. Seeing pictures of happy couples, flowers, engagements, etc. can trigger feelings of sadness, and be quite overwhelming.

Spend time with your loved ones

Valentine’s Day can exacerbate feelings of isolation and loneliness. The day has now been transformed into a celebration of romantic love but this, of course, doesn’t have to be the case. Plan to spend time with your closest friends or family, celebrating the love that is around you today. Doing activities to take your mind off the loss of a loved one will help with the grieving process. Taking the time to do what you want with Valentine’s Day is a great recourse to what can be an upsetting occasion.

Be your own valentine

This is a day when it’s important to practice self-love and to be kind to yourself. Allow yourself to feel a full range of emotions without shame. Accept that Valentine’s Day will bring many different feelings that you can’t control and give yourself space to process your emotions.

For more support following the death of a loved one, there are many organisations that can help. Find out more about bereavement support.

Navigating Funeral Cars

Funeral directors play a crucial role in providing compassionate and professional services to grieving families during difficult times. One aspect that often requires careful consideration is the choice of funeral vehicles, such as hearses and family vehicles. In this blog post, we’ll explore the significance of funeral cars and address frequently asked questions.

Funeral cars are not just a mode of transportation; they symbolise respect, dignity, and the final journey of a loved one. A well-chosen hearse can provide solace and contribute to the overall atmosphere of a funeral, creating a meaningful experience for the bereaved.

Some of the most frequently asked questions for Funeral Directors are:

What Types of Funeral Cars Are Available?
A. W. Bryant offers a selection of modern hearses and family vehicles to accommodate various preferences. We can also choose from a selection of other vehicles and modes of transport including horse drawn carriages, tractors, motorcycles and even walking funerals, ensuring that the vehicle aligns with the family’s vision for the service.

Will chauffeur driven limousines be required?
We can provide transport for mourners attending the funeral. This can relieve the stress of making your own travel arrangements and overcome issues of parking.

Where will the cortege leave from?
Would you like to follow the hearse from your home, or do you wish to meet the hearse at the location of the funeral all of these are possible and we will help you decide what’s best for you.

Will it take a special route?
Perhaps there is a favourite landmark that you would like the cortege to pass or even stop at. We can personalise the route to the funeral making it memorable and special.

Funeral directors play a pivotal role in shaping the final farewell for a departed loved one. Here at A. W. Bryant our commitment to providing well-maintained, customisable funeral cars reflects our dedication to supporting funeral directors in creating meaningful and personalised experiences for our families.

How to register a death

Losing a loved one is a difficult time for all and there are a number of things you have to think about. During this blog we can help to explain the procedure involved in registering a death.

Registering a death takes place prior to the funeral and is normally carried out by a relative. However, if no relative is available then the duty may be performed by any person present at the death, the occupier of the premises where the death took place, or the person accepting responsibility for arranging the funeral. It will be necessary to arrange an appointment with the Registrar.

The Registrar will require information about the person, including:
• Date and place of death
• Full name
• Date and place of birth
• Occupation
• Home address
• If they were in receipt of a pension or allowance from public funds
• If applicable, the date of birth of the surviving spouse

The Registrar will also require the following documents:
• The Medical Certificate of Cause of Death
• Their National Health Service medical card (if available)
• Their Birth Certificate
• Their Marriage Certificate (if applicable)

The Registrar will issue a green certificate for burial or cremation (a white certificate of registration of death in Scotland), which is required by us prior to the funeral.
Certified copies of the entry of death can be obtained for a small charge – these may be needed for legal or financial purposes.

We have produced a guide to the registration process including the contact details of the most local registration offices. Please collect your copy from one of our offices when you meet with your funeral director or download one here.

What is a memorial service?

There is often confusion on difference between a memorial service and a funeral service, one is a service with the purpose of honouring a life with their loved one present, whereas a memorial service is an event that takes place when a loved one is not present.

Today we are sharing in more detail the differences and what you can expect in the differing services held when a loved one passes away.

What is a memorial service?

Although memorial services are very similar to funerals, they are usually the go to service organised when the body of your loved one is not able to be present. These kinds of services usually take place when your loved one has already been buried or cremated therefore, the service doesn’t have to align with the time restrictions that are in place when a loved one still needs to be laid to rest, this particular type of service offers extra flexibility and more time when needed to plan a service.

Memorial services also don’t need to take place in any particular location, giving the families of the loved ones the freedom to select any location they desire, which could be somewhere sentimental to the loved one who has passed away or simply a more convenient location like a park, or local community centre.

There are several different types of commemoration events that families and friends hold when somebody passes away, a few of these are outlined below.

Celebration of life

This celebration can be held at any time, and usually takes place to mark a milestone so a year without a loved one or a birthday, giving family and friends the opportunity to come together in any setting to celebrate the life of their loved one.

Committal

Also known as a burial or graveside service, this is a small service held wherever your loved one is being finally laid to rest after a funeral, and allows family and friends to say their final goodbyes or make last sentiments in speeches beside the grave. Often people add items of sentiment to the grave on top of the coffin or throwing in a handful of dirt, which is a tradition for many.

Wake

A wake is a very common service that usually follows a funeral or memorial service, that allows people to come together to share their grief and spend time with people who knew and loved the person that has passed away. It is often an opportunity for everyone who attended the funeral to sit down with food and drink with their family and friends to reflect on the funeral and share memories of their loved ones.

Embracing simplicity:

Exploring the Benefits of Direct Cremation

Losing a loved one is an emotionally challenging experience, and amidst the grief, making funeral arrangements can be overwhelming.

In recent years, direct cremation has emerged as a popular alternative to traditional funeral services. We understand the evolving needs and desires of families during difficult times and offer direct cremation as a compassionate and dignified option. In this blog post, we will delve into the concept of direct cremation and explore its many benefits.

What is direct cremation?

Direct cremation is a simple and cost-effective method of handling a loved one, however, this does not mean that any corners have been cut, or that the care provided to you and your loved one falls short of our usual high standards.

Unlike traditional funeral services, direct cremation bypasses the ceremonial aspects and focuses solely on the cremation process which means you can say goodbye in your own way. Many families choose to hold a separate special event or celebration to honour the life of their loved one.

Your loved one is respectfully transported into our care in Bude, Camelford or Holsworthy and then on to a crematorium, where it is cremated without a formal funeral or viewing beforehand unless arranged.

Is a direct cremation for you?

A simple cremation without a ceremony is a good idea if you’re wanting to save costs or want to avoid the formality of a funeral service. They are also a good option if the person who passed away didn’t want a lot of fuss. Below are a list of some of the different ways in which a direct cremation may be the best option for you and your loved one.

Simplicity and Convenience:
Direct cremation offers a streamlined and hassle-free process. Families can avoid the complexities associated with traditional funerals, such as coordinating viewings, scheduling religious or cultural ceremonies, and arranging for transportation of the body. This simplicity can provide a sense of relief during an already stressful time.

Cost-Effective:
Funeral expenses can quickly add up, often placing an additional burden on grieving families. Direct cremation is an affordable alternative that eliminates many of the costs associated with traditional funeral services. By forgoing embalming, casket selection, and elaborate funeral ceremonies, families can save a significant amount of money while still honouring their loved one’s memory.

Flexibility and Personalisation:
Direct cremation allows families the freedom to plan memorial services or celebrations of life at a later date, providing ample time for grieving and making arrangements that truly reflect their loved one’s wishes and personality. This flexibility allows for personalised tributes that can be tailored to honour their life and bring comfort to those left behind.

Environmental Considerations:
In an era where sustainability is increasingly valued, direct cremation aligns with eco-conscious principles. Unlike traditional burials that require land and resources, cremation offers a more environmentally friendly alternative. With direct cremation, families can choose to scatter their loved one’s ashes in a meaningful location or opt for eco-friendly options like biodegradable urns, contributing to the preservation of the planet.

Emotional Closure:
Direct cremation enables families to focus on the emotional healing process without the immediate pressure of planning a funeral. It allows them to come to terms with their loss at their own pace and design a memorial that truly reflects their loved one’s life and legacy. This can help facilitate a more meaningful and personalised grieving experience.

Is a green funeral right for me or my loved one?

A green funeral may be right for you or your loved ones if you prefer an environmentally conscious funeral, a nature-focused service, or a non-religious service – or all three.

Many people prefer green funerals because they like the idea of a body returning to the earth and of planting a tree or flowers in memory of a loved one.

It’s also worth noting that a green funeral takes place in burial grounds that are designed to look as much like natural woodland as possible,. While your loved one’s exact burial location may be difficult to locate, many people consider the entire green space to be a memorial.

We recognise the importance of providing families with choices that suit their individual needs and circumstances. Direct cremation offers simplicity, cost-effectiveness, flexibility, and environmental considerations while still honouring the memory of the departed. By embracing direct cremation, families can find solace in knowing they have chosen a dignified and compassionate option during their time of grief.